Anna Peterson 1895-1913
Anna Myrtle Peterson 1913-1995
52 Weeks/52 Ancestors Prompt: “Namesake”
The Norwegian side of my family liked to name children in
honor of other family members, so there were many “namesakes” on that side of
the family tree. Sometimes these stories are sad—children named for a family
member that recently passed. My father’s family featured the most heartbreaking
of these stories.
My paternal grandparents, Paul Peterson and Regina Severson
Peterson, had nine children. My father was the youngest. Their first child,
Anna Peterson, was born July 30, 1895. I know nothing about her childhood, and
have yet to find photos of her. She married a young man from the same area,
Theodore Christian Oren, on June 19, 1912. He appears to have lived next door
to young Anna’s grandmother, Ragnhild Severson, so they may have met when she
was visiting her grandmother. Anna was
sixteen, nearly seventeen. Theodore was just about to turn twenty.
Lake Hanska Lutheran Church record of Anna and Theodore's marriage
It isn’t clear where the young couple lived following their
marriage. By 1920, Theodore has his own farm in Albin Township, several miles
from his father’s farm in Linden Township. But in 1912, he may not have had his
own property yet, and probably brought his bride to live with his parents and siblings. The early marriage was a "shotgun wedding"—it appears Anna was a
few months pregnant at the time of the marriage. Their son, Arnold Theodore
Oren, was born January 2, 1913, only five months after the July 30 marriage.
Unfortunately, Anna had post-natal complications, a frequent
problem in those days. She died at age 17, less than three weeks after giving
birth, on January 22, 1913. Without his mother to nurse him, little baby Arnold
was unable to survive, and died February 8, 1913.
Lake Hanska Lutheran Church Burial Record for Anna Peterson Oren
This tragedy deeply affected my grandmother, Regina
Peterson, who was pregnant at the same time as her young daughter and was due to give birth just weeks after Anna. Regina and Paul’s seventh child, a girl, was born February
23, 1913, a month and a day after Anna's death. The family had just buried little grandson Arnold two weeks earlier. Paul and Regina
chose to honor their lost first daughter by naming their new daughter in her honor.
The baby was baptized as Anna Myrtle Peterson on April 6, 1913.
Anna Myrtle was just four years older than my father, Juhl.
They were close as children, along with sister Thelma who was born in 1915. Anna
Myrtle eventually married Alvin Clifford McFarlane, and had two children. They
lived in the Brainerd, Minnesota area. Anna Myrtle McFarlane died June 2, 1995
at age 82.
I wonder how Anna Myrtle felt about being named for her dead older sister. Did
anyone ever ask her? I wonder if my grandmother Regina was comforted by the
namesake name, or if calling this new daughter by her first daughter’s name was
just another aching reminder of loss. The family never used Anna Myrtle’s middle
name (as I have done in this blogpost) to distinguish her from her older sister. However I remember they usually referred to her as “Anne” rather than “Anna”--a subtle yet distinct difference.
I wish I knew more about my father's lost older sister. The family rarely mentioned Anna Peterson Oren, and never told stories about her that I can recall. I have yet to find her grave or that of her infant son.