Saturday, September 25, 2021

Shock to See Cousins Still in Touch: 52 Ancestors 2021 Prompt “Shock”

Paul Peterson’s Children Still in Touch with Marit Peterson Trosdahl’s Children in the 1960s: How Did My Generation Lose Touch?

Joseph M Trosdahl: 1886-1968
Minnie Paulson Trosdahl: 1891-1961
Randy Peterson: 1899-1965
Thelma Peterson Hansen: 1915-1965

 

Most of my generation of Paul Peterson’s descendants aren’t even aware that Paul had two sisters, both of whom had large families. Marit Peterson Joramo Trosdahl and her family moved to northern Minnesota some time before 1910. Julia Peterson Joramo Severson moved to South Dakota with her husband and children a good decade earlier. Both families mostly fell out of touch with Paul’s side, until their very existence was no longer part of the oral family history. Many of my cousins think that Paul had only one sibling, a brother, Jacob Joramo.

After I discovered the existence of Marit and her descendants a couple years ago, I had assumed that Marit and Paul’s families had lost touch soon after Marit and her husband Johan Trosdahl moved to Nidaros Township in Otter Tail County. Paul Peterson and brother Jacob Joramo had stayed in southern Minnesota, farming in Lake Hanska Township in Brown County about 200 miles from the Trosdahls. However, this assumption was shattered when I ran across an obituary from 1961.


Marit and Johan Trosdahl had ten children. The sixth of their children was son Joseph Mangnus Trosdahl, born October 4, 1886 in Linden Township, just a couple miles from Paul Peterson’s farm. Joseph was in his teens when the family relocated to northern Minnesota. He took up farming, and married a local girl named Minnie Paulson.

Minnie died December 31, 1960, and her funeral was held at the Nidaros Lutheran Church on January 5, 1961. The Fergus Fall Daily Journal had a nice funeral write up, with more detail than typical. It included a list of family and friends who had traveled a long distance to the funeral. Among this list were two very familiar names, Randy Peterson and Mrs. Leo Hanson of Minneapolis. Randine and Thelma were my dad’s older sisters. They had driven 172 miles in the middle of a harsh Minnesota winter to attend the funeral of their first cousin’s wife—an extraordinary effort in that time considering the quality of cars and the condition of the roads. They must have felt close to Joseph and his siblings, people my dad didn’t even remember (probably because they moved away about 15 years before he was born).

Nidaros Lutheran Church

Sadly, Thelma and Randine both died just four years later in 1965, and Joseph Trosdahl died in 1968. Trosdahls still live in Nidaros Township, as can be seen on the plat map below--they are likely cousins.


While it was a shock to realize that the two families maintained communication and connection for many years longer than I had originally assumed, it was also very comforting. I’m glad family ties survived the miles through at least one generation. Perhaps a new generation can re-establish the connection. 

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